Sometimes people act as though having a successful relationship is such a difficult challenge.  You would think that people had never even heard of the Golden Rule.  Seriously, people will read books, watch afternoon television shows and pay thousands of dollars for therapy without ever trying to treat the other person the way they would like to be treated.

I do not know why this happens.  It is important to actually force yourself to take a look at everything you say and do related to your partner.  Maybe that is what freezes people up.  Just watching yourself closely for a couple of days and consciously noticing your own actions can sometimes be a real eye opener.  Realizing that you may be part of the problem can be painful, but it can also be a great way to start making a relationship stronger.  Taking care of your relationship should always be a priority.